Life hack articles bossing emerging adults.

When searching for current communication/ advice towards emerging adult that is currently out there I came across a article on life hack that was in the same tone that many of the articles are. 
It is telling, bossy and instructive.
It is unequal/not on the same level as emerging adults. 
It makes it seem as if the reader is being talked down to and not on an equal level as the writer. It will not be the deliberate yet it is how it comes across.

It seems to be that our approach needs to be coming from emerging adults themselves to create an equal embracing tone of voice. 

You Don’t

You’re Not 

You Need To

You Will Not

You Must Eat Well